It’s that time of year again! Come join us for the holidays! A night of drinking and celebration with the Blackrose Coven! Prizes will be handed out. Come enjoy the festive atmosphere and music! Hope to see you there and Happy Holidays, from my family, to yours!
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Black Lotus welcomes patrons to our Black Tie Formal Event! With Live DJ Len Arda bumping the tunes all night! Dance, Drink, And Vibe with our staff <3
Date: January 11 Time: 7pm - 10pm CST
Location: Brynhildr | The Goblet | Ward 10 Plot 13
Website: https://blacklotusnightclub.carrd.co/
Discord: https://discord.gg/BlackLotus
Join us every Monday and Thursday night at the Black Lotus nightclub. Drink, dance, and wile your cares away with us! Live bard performances most nights and some of the best dancers this side of Dalmasca! @crystal-rp-ffxiv
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LOVE IS ON FIRE
Black Lotus welcomes patrons to our Love is on Fire Valentine’s day Event! With Live DJ SpiralFruit bumping the tunes all night!
Come make your night a special one with our lovely staff, drink the night away and maybe you’ll walk away with a flaming weapon of choice.
Black Lotus will be raffling off a weapon from The Vermilion Bird herself, Suzaku starting at 10k gil. No limit. Must be present to win!!
Date: February 8th Time: 7pm - 10pm CST
Location: Brynhildr | The Goblet | Ward 10 Plot 13
Website: https://blacklotusnightclub.carrd.co/
Event Website: https://onfire.crd.co/
Discord: https://discord.gg/fGzXQBRZpH DJ
Feeling chilly? Black Lotus Nightclub will warm you up with Sweater Weather! Wear a cozy sweater and join us on Monday, December 14, 2020 from 7 PM - 10 PM CST to dance the night away with our lovely ladies and handsome men! Brynhildr, Goblet, Ward 10, Plot 13
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Join us Monday night, Jan 4th! Our beautiful girls and handsome boys will be dancing for your viewing pleasure in their very best naughty outfits. Come find out what pleasure the dark of Black Lotus can bring to you! Brynhilder, Goblet, Ward 10, plot 13. From 7-10pm CST (8-11pm EST)
It’s that time of year again! Come join us for the holidays! A night of drinking and celebration with the Blackrose Coven! Prizes will be handed out. Come enjoy the festive atmosphere and music! Hope to see you there and Happy Holidays, from my family, to yours!
@crystal-rp-ffxiv @crystalxivrp
This is tonight! Come on by!
Just a reminder that this spoopy event is tonight! RP not required, but feel free to if you wish!
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Anonymous asked:
My OC was in a polyamorous relationship with two people and as of late the person who plays one of the characters in the relationship (also my friend) has fallen out from the relationship altogether which means we're no longer shipping our characters together and haven't been for a long time now.
This person while supporting my content and still very much my friend, has gone out of their way to avoid content I have with this other person where my OC is still in a relationship with them. It's not a fun feeling and I'm sensing some jealousy and pettiness there. I've also been trying to be understanding and patient. However, it should also be noted that this person was fine with my OC and the other person's OC's being involved when it was the three of them. Suddenly it's a problem to act some sort of way over?
No conversations have been had about this as I feel like if this friend had an issue with it they should be open and honest with me, not slighting me behind the scenes. I'm somewhat of an observer and can't help but notice this. I fully understand that open relationships/poly stuff is difficult to RP but when we were all interacting it was very open, with no issues, we all communicated and everyone seemed happy. Suddenly it's not. There is something residual there.
Since their character has split off (their choice to do so), I'm getting a very heavy avoidance feeling over here and I'm not sure how to react. I feel bad for posting my content because I don't want to make them /feel/ a certain way but I'm also stuck in the mindset that this is my content and I'll enjoy it and those who don't can mess off. It's been putting a damper on sharing creative works such as art forms or writing because I don't want to be insensitive but I also don't want someone's unspoken, residual feelings (whatever they might be) to impact me and stifle my sway.
What are your thoughts on this and have you ever experienced something like this yourself?
I apologize for the novel but I figured the one person I could trust on this platform to give advice or have an actual, impactful discussion about how I'm feeling even while on Anon, would be you.
Thanks!💕
Hiya, Anon! You have nothing to apologize for! I’m sorry you’re going through all that. I tend to shy away from role-playing polyamorous relationships unless it’s the same person playing multiple characters, so I can only offer more of an outside perspective. I don’t know your friend’s reason for leaving the IC relationship, or if it was something they were being honest with you about to begin with, but it sounds like maybe your friend feels like they are missing out on the RP now even if it was their choice initially to drop it, or maybe feeling insecure that your friendship with them will mean less without the RP relationship component? It may be difficult for them to see you continue happily RPing with someone else and feel like they are missing out.
Maybe they have come to regret their decision afterward, or maybe these feelings have been festering for a while and are part of what led them to withdraw their character from the relationship to begin with? In polyamorous or open relationships in RP, I think it’s very easy for someone to start feeling like a third wheel or the “least favorite.” Either way, I agree that your friend should have been open and honest with you about their feelings, and it’s a shame they don’t seem to be doing that.
Regardless, you keep doing you! Don’t let anyone else get you down about posting the content you want to post in your own spaces. You shouldn’t have to hide your OC and their relationship with someone, no matter how anyone else is feeling about it. From my perspective, your two best options are either to keep going about your business as normal and ignore this person’s attitude until they either eventually get over whatever is upsetting them or talk to you about it, or approaching them directly to ask what is bothering them and why they are no longer interacting with any content involving your OC and their remaining partner.
